There is no virtue in tolerating toxic behavior. The hardest thing I had to learn. My seeing people’s internal struggles and pain has been my undoing. It was here, I learnt that people steal more than material possessions.
The irony was when I had nothing left. Because these toxic people had taken everything. I was not given the same unconditional love or help when I needed it most and was dealt a lethal blow instead.
What I Learnt
Now I know how to detect both sides, the selfish, callous and narcissistic. And the co-dependent and toxic. It’s sad but you really can’t rely on anyone but yourself. So much for ideal relationships!
Let us rebuild a healthy state of mind.